"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How do you not get caught into the texting game?

demonic

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hey so you get the girls number and she starts to txt you rather than phone you.
She shows high intrest by the ammount of txt she sends you and the quick response.

So how do you guys not get caught with this?, i mean i got a girls number last night and wake up this morning to find a txt.

I respond to it a few hours later and then get 2 txt back asking questions within 2mins of each other.

I just wanna get out of this txting thing cause i think it ruined my last relationship.

DeMonic
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mutambo

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call her up and get a drink?
and then if she txt again just ignore
i guess
 

demonic

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Daddy The Pimp said:
lol cmon man .. why u wanna stop her ??

Let her send u messages .

It's cause i wanna seem less intrested and by her txting me i gotta txt her back to keep it rolling.
 

MushroomGod

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Just text no big deal just don't go out of your way to send a message back. Texting is a good thing I hate the phone.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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LostAndConfused

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Find an "out" to every short text message conversation. If she asks you an important question, like proposing a date, go for it, but to most other comments you can just ignore them. Texting isn't that bad, it just brings an extra dimension to the game that most people screw up.
 

WC2

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Just get the stigma in her head that you aren't a big fan of txt messaging. I've always done it with all my women. Tell her you're a bigger fan of phone conversation or just seeing her in person. Trust me, she will like that.
 
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