"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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how do you next a girl who hangs in a similar crowd?

garruk

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how do you next a girl who hangs out in the same crowd as you?

can you really completely cut off all contact?

i just feel like it would difficult/awkward
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You don't date her friends, for starters. You have to break it off in a way that her friends accept, even if she doesn't. Blowing a girl off in front of the crowd can really hurt a girl, especially if it's a one night stand. You'll feel really bad years later when you realize it was because of you that this happy-go-lucky babe became jaded. Most girls when they go off to college come back jaded for that reason.
 

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Use jealousy plot lines, disqualify yourself as a suitor, and bring other hot chicks around.
 

the305

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i would really love to here why you would cut a girl off.. please enlighten me.
 

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Be cordial, but distant. I go through this on a semi-regular basis. its a little uncomfortable at first, but after a while everythings fine, a d you can even be friends.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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garruk

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the305 said:
i would really love to here why you would cut a girl off.. please enlighten me.
i was jsut keeping this girl around to make my main plate jealous. but recently my main plate dropped me and os i have no need for this girl anymore lol.

shes cute and we've hooked up before, but i hate her personality. sounds gay but you guys would understand if you knew her. shes real cool but almost too cool. like one of the guys kinda thing.
 
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