How do you make some really into you when you meet?

[Rint]

Yea the title is my question. I wanna know how to connect well with HSers when i meet them male or female so that i can build social proof. I often have trouble making people feel comfortable and open to be themselves around me. Any advice?

 

[Plec07]

Just be cool and relaxed about it, read the DJ bootcamp week 1 confidence thing and other posts about confidence. Add some C+F into it and maybe even some light kino if your with a girl.

 

[Rint]

I dont really like C&F any other advice not really DJish, but more just advice on becoming popular and good with people

 

[GuitarHero]

I found this site. It might help you

http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Popular

 

[Plec07]

I dont really like C&F any other advice not really DJish, but more just advice on becoming popular and good with people

It's still pretty much the same, be confident, calm and relaxed. People will respect you for that and thus you'll become popular.

 

[michaelhctam]

I guess for HS age (esp for me) its not too good to be C+F because it gives the vibe to people that you are trying to act cool and especially with guys, they may think you'll become a potential threat in the future and will try to destroy you.

I knew a guy in my old highschool, he did the C+F thing....girls thought he was just an a-hole and the guys bullied him relentlessly.

 

[Snow Plowman]

I'm in high school and everything works fine. I actually think it's easier because in there short lives so far they haven't met much guys who could give them the experience that you could give them.

C&F isn't the only tool. Push/pull, Stories, cold reads, etc all work fine.

 

[Rint]

Well i guess it works, but all these techniques dont work well with my personality. I'm trying to change it, but its so hard. I dont know how to get rid of bad traits and increase good ones. SO ****ING HARD

 

[True Wolf]

Dude, C&F is probably one of the, arguably THE, most important tool us DJ's have. Seriously, if you don't utilize it, take your game, divide it in half, and you'll play at that level.

 

[Lompa]

Well, most of the people in the crowd like someone similiar to them.
Now what to do you ask? Whenever you have a conversation pay attention to what other people say when they describe stuff:
"i went to the pool and the sun[/B and the blue water and the green grasswere an amazing view"-thats someone who likes to see things.
"i went to hike and the wind whispering was amazing"-Sound ype of guy
And so on.
When you speak with some one you know his type try to describe stuff like he does.
I hope i was clear enough.