Yea the title is my question. I wanna know how to connect well with HSers when i meet them male or female so that i can build social proof. I often have trouble making people feel comfortable and open to be themselves around me. Any advice?
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Plec07
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Just be cool and relaxed about it, read the DJ bootcamp week 1 confidence thing and other posts about confidence. Add some C+F into it and maybe even some light kino if your with a girl.
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Plec07
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It's still pretty much the same, be confident, calm and relaxed. People will respect you for that and thus you'll become popular.Rint said:
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I guess for HS age (esp for me) its not too good to be C+F because it gives the vibe to people that you are trying to act cool and especially with guys, they may think you'll become a potential threat in the future and will try to destroy you.
I knew a guy in my old highschool, he did the C+F thing....girls thought he was just an a-hole and the guys bullied him relentlessly.
I knew a guy in my old highschool, he did the C+F thing....girls thought he was just an a-hole and the guys bullied him relentlessly.
Snow Plowman
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I'm in high school and everything works fine. I actually think it's easier because in there short lives so far they haven't met much guys who could give them the experience that you could give them.
C&F isn't the only tool. Push/pull, Stories, cold reads, etc all work fine.
C&F isn't the only tool. Push/pull, Stories, cold reads, etc all work fine.
Well, most of the people in the crowd like someone similiar to them.
Now what to do you ask? Whenever you have a conversation pay attention to what other people say when they describe stuff:
"i went to the pool and the sun[/B and the blue water and the green grasswere an amazing view"-thats someone who likes to see things.
"i went to hike and the wind whispering was amazing"-Sound ype of guy
And so on.
When you speak with some one you know his type try to describe stuff like he does.
I hope i was clear enough.
Now what to do you ask? Whenever you have a conversation pay attention to what other people say when they describe stuff:
"i went to the pool and the sun[/B and the blue water and the green grasswere an amazing view"-thats someone who likes to see things.
"i went to hike and the wind whispering was amazing"-Sound ype of guy
And so on.
When you speak with some one you know his type try to describe stuff like he does.
I hope i was clear enough.