Yea the title is my question. I wanna know how to connect well with HSers when i meet them male or female so that i can build social proof. I often have trouble making people feel comfortable and open to be themselves around me. Any advice?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
How do you make some really into you when you meet?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
Just be cool and relaxed about it, read the DJ bootcamp week 1 confidence thing and other posts about confidence. Add some C+F into it and maybe even some light kino if your with a girl.
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Plec07
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It's still pretty much the same, be confident, calm and relaxed. People will respect you for that and thus you'll become popular.Rint said:I dont really like C&F any other advice not really DJish, but more just advice on becoming popular and good with people
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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I guess for HS age (esp for me) its not too good to be C+F because it gives the vibe to people that you are trying to act cool and especially with guys, they may think you'll become a potential threat in the future and will try to destroy you.
I knew a guy in my old highschool, he did the C+F thing....girls thought he was just an a-hole and the guys bullied him relentlessly.
I knew a guy in my old highschool, he did the C+F thing....girls thought he was just an a-hole and the guys bullied him relentlessly.
Snow Plowman
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I'm in high school and everything works fine. I actually think it's easier because in there short lives so far they haven't met much guys who could give them the experience that you could give them.
C&F isn't the only tool. Push/pull, Stories, cold reads, etc all work fine.
C&F isn't the only tool. Push/pull, Stories, cold reads, etc all work fine.
Well, most of the people in the crowd like someone similiar to them.
Now what to do you ask? Whenever you have a conversation pay attention to what other people say when they describe stuff:
"i went to the pool and the sun[/B and the blue water and the green grasswere an amazing view"-thats someone who likes to see things.
"i went to hike and the wind whispering was amazing"-Sound ype of guy
And so on.
When you speak with some one you know his type try to describe stuff like he does.
I hope i was clear enough.
Now what to do you ask? Whenever you have a conversation pay attention to what other people say when they describe stuff:
"i went to the pool and the sun[/B and the blue water and the green grasswere an amazing view"-thats someone who likes to see things.
"i went to hike and the wind whispering was amazing"-Sound ype of guy
And so on.
When you speak with some one you know his type try to describe stuff like he does.
I hope i was clear enough.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.