"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How do you make a woman squirt?
- Thread starter El Payaso
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
It's actually have never been proven that women can squirt. There have been multiple research done where fluid was analyzed. Multiple research studies concluded that the fluid that comes out during squirting has the exact same content as urine.El Payaso said:
Meaning women are just peeing when squirting, voluntarily or not.
1. Never be a "pure thruster," try to get them to masturbate for you, watch whether they grind on the ****, stroke it or press back to the spots in the vag. Try to carefully estimate the amount of pressure they are using, increasing and decreasing, fast and slow, be observant. Watch what they do to themselves and then do that with your applicable body parts. Simple. Don't TELL them you are doing this to learn their buttons, tell them it makes you hot. Don't jump them in the middle of their masturbation, watch the whole thing very carefully acting as if you are beyond turned on to conceal the careful attention.
2. Start juicing them up beforehand, hours in advance. Drop little innuendos, not graphic at all to start, their imagination will do the rest. Then get gradually more suggestive and graphic. Rarely just grab them into bed and f them, that's how ruts start and they get bored. Give them some food, wine, get them talking about their feelings, sensations. Watch 9 1/2 Weeks. Never just "f them now" when they say that or "take me," play with it, repeat, confirm, tease. "I've been thinking about your all morning," becomes significantly later in the day or night "I've been thinking about your hot, wet juicy pxssy all day long, I've GOT to have that Pxssy." But ramp up, and wait for feedback before escalating. The best sex is escalated when it's THEIR idea to escalate or they think it is anyway.
3. TALK. ASK THEM WHAT THEY WANT. "It's OK to tell me ANYTHING you want, it TURNS ME ON to hear you tell me what you want." Not before, but DURING foreplay... eh sometimes before. Dirty talk is key to juicing them up. Repeat it back to them, "you want me to...? is that what you want? you don't sound like you want it that much, how much do you REALLY want that?" Tailor your noise to their response, some like to hear a man grunt with pleasure, but maybe not at the start, some like the whole time. Gauge their response to the noises you make and remember that.
If they start off yelling and panting, unless you REALLY juiced them up prior, they are usually faking, it takes about a minute IME to get even the horniest, wettest ones "forgetting themselves" and making real sounds honestly. If I get that fake BS right off the bat, I will slow WAY down, disengage near entirely and start over from scratch. DON't REWARD bad habits like faking, it will reduce attraction in the long run. Most of their faking is because they want to get it over or aren't really into it, you don't want that or ever to reinforce it.
4. In the act, nondescript cues such as "is that it? is that hitting it?" Ride high in missionary, pull ankles up in air and over their head if flexible, and get the clt, g and deeper in at the same time. Wait to switch not just because you think it's time, but they or you are about to come, then and only then switch. Don't just do things right when they ask, repeat, confirm, tease.
5. Don't talk about sex directly either before or after in a "did you like that?" "wow that was great" way. OF COURSE it was great, that goes without saying if she is laying back on the bed sweating all flushed and panting with her legs spread smiling. Keep SOME mystery in it, and most analysis OUT, even though your are doing it with her hundreds or thousands of times. Same principle applies to shtting and peeing with the door open. Don't.
Enough for now, that's a start. As you can see, most of this is mental, nothing to do with d size or raw "technique" or positions, the brain is of course the most sensitive, powerful sex organ in the body. Treat it as such. Your goal of mastery is to make women you are dating start coming in their pants from just kissing them.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
It's a mental thing for the woman. It feels like she has to pee when orgasming, and then she just has to relax and let go. Most women squirt with cl!t stimulation more so than having anything inside of them, at least at the moment of squirting. It also helps if she has been drinking and needs to pee anyway.
So it really has nothing to do with the guy's sexual prowess; it's a trick the woman has to learn.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Step 2. Fill it with water.
Step 3. Hand the girlie the Super Soaker.
Step 4. Have her squirt you with it.
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That's what I tend to think too. I known a couple or a few women that squirted and I don't like it. As far as I'm concerned it's like being peed on.way2smart said:
Good luck.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
If she doesn't squirt after you do most of the stuff said in that thread, then I don't think it's you...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
BetterCallSaul
Master Don Juan
Bible_Belt said:
It IS pee, I don't know why there's so much stuff floating around about how "we don't know what it is or where it comes from" bs. Think about it - there is only 1 organ down there that can store that much fluid.
Now, when she does squirt, yes, there's most likely/almost definitely some women juices mixed in, but I guarantee you everything else is coming straight out of her bladder.