Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
It's actually have never been proven that women can squirt. There have been multiple research done where fluid was analyzed. Multiple research studies concluded that the fluid that comes out during squirting has the exact same content as urine.El Payaso said:What the title says.
But from the squirting I've seen, the fluid is usually white as opposed to light or dark yellow.way2smart said:It's actually have never been proven that women can squirt. There have been multiple research done where fluid was analyzed. Multiple research studies concluded that the fluid that comes out during squirting has the exact same content as urine.
Meaning women are just peeing when squirting, voluntarily or not.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That's what I tend to think too. I known a couple or a few women that squirted and I don't like it. As far as I'm concerned it's like being peed on.way2smart said:It's actually have never been proven that women can squirt. There have been multiple research done where fluid was analyzed. Multiple research studies concluded that the fluid that comes out during squirting has the exact same content as urine.
Meaning women are just peeing when squirting, voluntarily or not.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Bible_Belt said:It's almost pee, but not quite. It's the fluid that is held for urination, but when peeing it goes out a different route and is mixed with more bodily wastes.
It's a mental thing for the woman. It feels like she has to pee when orgasming, and then she just has to relax and let go. Most women squirt with cl!t stimulation more so than having anything inside of them, at least at the moment of squirting. It also helps if she has been drinking and needs to pee anyway.
So it really has nothing to do with the guy's sexual prowess; it's a trick the woman has to learn.