You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
It's actually have never been proven that women can squirt. There have been multiple research done where fluid was analyzed. Multiple research studies concluded that the fluid that comes out during squirting has the exact same content as urine.El Payaso said:What the title says.
But from the squirting I've seen, the fluid is usually white as opposed to light or dark yellow.way2smart said:It's actually have never been proven that women can squirt. There have been multiple research done where fluid was analyzed. Multiple research studies concluded that the fluid that comes out during squirting has the exact same content as urine.
Meaning women are just peeing when squirting, voluntarily or not.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That's what I tend to think too. I known a couple or a few women that squirted and I don't like it. As far as I'm concerned it's like being peed on.way2smart said:It's actually have never been proven that women can squirt. There have been multiple research done where fluid was analyzed. Multiple research studies concluded that the fluid that comes out during squirting has the exact same content as urine.
Meaning women are just peeing when squirting, voluntarily or not.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bible_Belt said:It's almost pee, but not quite. It's the fluid that is held for urination, but when peeing it goes out a different route and is mixed with more bodily wastes.
It's a mental thing for the woman. It feels like she has to pee when orgasming, and then she just has to relax and let go. Most women squirt with cl!t stimulation more so than having anything inside of them, at least at the moment of squirting. It also helps if she has been drinking and needs to pee anyway.
So it really has nothing to do with the guy's sexual prowess; it's a trick the woman has to learn.