"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do you know when you've won if your not keeping score?

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how do you know if you've won if your not keeping score?

Alot of guys here are good with girls... they have their career lined up... they look good... they have a healthy social life... yet still they come here like something is wrong?

You've worked for it.. now enjoy it. Stop caring so much.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LMAO, spider u cheecky sh*t:D

I actually think thats a pretty good tip. Loads of people are having ****in' GREAT lives. They can get a REASONABLE amount of girls, have a nice social circle, etc.

But they come here to complain because they "just can't get that one girl." or something to that effect.

Stop being so pessimistic! Enjoy your life!

-peace-
 
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There's a Good question and quote to this saying - " Are you living your life to live or are you living your life to die?"

Living your life to live is obviously enjoying your life, you are at peace with yourself and you are grateful for what you have.

Living your life to die is you are still in - survival mode, you are trying to survive life just by eating your three meals a day and being miserable in the process.

Unfortunately, even the most successful people in the world like those people who went from rags to riches are really miserable because they never were brought up to learn how to enjoy life from an early age and sought external usage as a way to " happiness and joy."

It is a sad reality, that's why you must enjoy the journey to enjoy the destination.
 
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Originally posted by Roly
There's a Good question and quote to this saying - " Are you living your life to live or are you living your life to die?"

Living your life to live is obviously enjoying your life, you are at peace with yourself and you are grateful for what you have.

Living your life to die is you are still in - survival mode, you are trying to survive life just by eating your three meals a day and being miserable in the process.

Unfortunately, even the most successful people in the world like those people who went from rags to riches are really miserable because they never were brought up to learn how to enjoy life from an early age and sought external usage as a way to " happiness and joy."

It is a sad reality, that's why you must enjoy the journey to enjoy the destination.
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Extremely well put.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by spider_007
oh god, and they made you a mod:confused:
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I'm just as confused as you are.
 
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