"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How do you know when you've won if your not keeping score?

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how do you know if you've won if your not keeping score?

Alot of guys here are good with girls... they have their career lined up... they look good... they have a healthy social life... yet still they come here like something is wrong?

You've worked for it.. now enjoy it. Stop caring so much.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LMAO, spider u cheecky sh*t:D

I actually think thats a pretty good tip. Loads of people are having ****in' GREAT lives. They can get a REASONABLE amount of girls, have a nice social circle, etc.

But they come here to complain because they "just can't get that one girl." or something to that effect.

Stop being so pessimistic! Enjoy your life!

-peace-
 
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There's a Good question and quote to this saying - " Are you living your life to live or are you living your life to die?"

Living your life to live is obviously enjoying your life, you are at peace with yourself and you are grateful for what you have.

Living your life to die is you are still in - survival mode, you are trying to survive life just by eating your three meals a day and being miserable in the process.

Unfortunately, even the most successful people in the world like those people who went from rags to riches are really miserable because they never were brought up to learn how to enjoy life from an early age and sought external usage as a way to " happiness and joy."

It is a sad reality, that's why you must enjoy the journey to enjoy the destination.
 
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Originally posted by Roly
There's a Good question and quote to this saying - " Are you living your life to live or are you living your life to die?"

Living your life to live is obviously enjoying your life, you are at peace with yourself and you are grateful for what you have.

Living your life to die is you are still in - survival mode, you are trying to survive life just by eating your three meals a day and being miserable in the process.

Unfortunately, even the most successful people in the world like those people who went from rags to riches are really miserable because they never were brought up to learn how to enjoy life from an early age and sought external usage as a way to " happiness and joy."

It is a sad reality, that's why you must enjoy the journey to enjoy the destination.
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Extremely well put.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by spider_007
oh god, and they made you a mod:confused:
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I'm just as confused as you are.
 
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