"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How do you know when you've won if your not keeping score?

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how do you know if you've won if your not keeping score?

Alot of guys here are good with girls... they have their career lined up... they look good... they have a healthy social life... yet still they come here like something is wrong?

You've worked for it.. now enjoy it. Stop caring so much.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LMAO, spider u cheecky sh*t:D

I actually think thats a pretty good tip. Loads of people are having ****in' GREAT lives. They can get a REASONABLE amount of girls, have a nice social circle, etc.

But they come here to complain because they "just can't get that one girl." or something to that effect.

Stop being so pessimistic! Enjoy your life!

-peace-
 
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There's a Good question and quote to this saying - " Are you living your life to live or are you living your life to die?"

Living your life to live is obviously enjoying your life, you are at peace with yourself and you are grateful for what you have.

Living your life to die is you are still in - survival mode, you are trying to survive life just by eating your three meals a day and being miserable in the process.

Unfortunately, even the most successful people in the world like those people who went from rags to riches are really miserable because they never were brought up to learn how to enjoy life from an early age and sought external usage as a way to " happiness and joy."

It is a sad reality, that's why you must enjoy the journey to enjoy the destination.
 
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Originally posted by Roly
There's a Good question and quote to this saying - " Are you living your life to live or are you living your life to die?"

Living your life to live is obviously enjoying your life, you are at peace with yourself and you are grateful for what you have.

Living your life to die is you are still in - survival mode, you are trying to survive life just by eating your three meals a day and being miserable in the process.

Unfortunately, even the most successful people in the world like those people who went from rags to riches are really miserable because they never were brought up to learn how to enjoy life from an early age and sought external usage as a way to " happiness and joy."

It is a sad reality, that's why you must enjoy the journey to enjoy the destination.
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Extremely well put.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by spider_007
oh god, and they made you a mod:confused:
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I'm just as confused as you are.
 
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