"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How do you know when to act?

Westwind

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Lately i've been hanging out with one of my friends that' a girl. She's super hot and really cool. But i have a problem, how do i know if she likes me?

What could i do or ask to know. Like is there something i could say to her , text ,or do to her to know?

Do you just jump into it and make out with her or what.

This i've been really struggling with because everyone hates rejection, especially with friends.


Please help me out guys.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Vice

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First off, DON'T ASK HER IF SHE LIKES YOU!

One way to test if she does it to visibly hang out with another girl and observe her reaction.

Another, less ****ty way is to look for IOIs.
 

Westwind

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Ok, how can i use kino on her.

I want to find the boundries with her.
 

The Deacon

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I think you should just use the ballsy approach on this one. It's always better to default to action. Call her up and ask her out on a date, and make sure she knows you're asking her out on a date. If you don't, it's tacky.

First off, DON'T ASK HER IF SHE LIKES YOU!
Good advice. That's also tacky.

Also, don't say "I like you." The way I see it, when lions start doin' it, they don't say "I like you," they just do it.
 
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