"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How do you know when to act?

Westwind

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Lately i've been hanging out with one of my friends that' a girl. She's super hot and really cool. But i have a problem, how do i know if she likes me?

What could i do or ask to know. Like is there something i could say to her , text ,or do to her to know?

Do you just jump into it and make out with her or what.

This i've been really struggling with because everyone hates rejection, especially with friends.


Please help me out guys.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Vice

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First off, DON'T ASK HER IF SHE LIKES YOU!

One way to test if she does it to visibly hang out with another girl and observe her reaction.

Another, less ****ty way is to look for IOIs.
 

Westwind

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Ok, how can i use kino on her.

I want to find the boundries with her.
 

The Deacon

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I think you should just use the ballsy approach on this one. It's always better to default to action. Call her up and ask her out on a date, and make sure she knows you're asking her out on a date. If you don't, it's tacky.

First off, DON'T ASK HER IF SHE LIKES YOU!
Good advice. That's also tacky.

Also, don't say "I like you." The way I see it, when lions start doin' it, they don't say "I like you," they just do it.
 
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