"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Westwind

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Lately i've been hanging out with one of my friends that' a girl. She's super hot and really cool. But i have a problem, how do i know if she likes me?

What could i do or ask to know. Like is there something i could say to her , text ,or do to her to know?

Do you just jump into it and make out with her or what.

This i've been really struggling with because everyone hates rejection, especially with friends.


Please help me out guys.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Vice

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First off, DON'T ASK HER IF SHE LIKES YOU!

One way to test if she does it to visibly hang out with another girl and observe her reaction.

Another, less ****ty way is to look for IOIs.
 

Westwind

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Ok, how can i use kino on her.

I want to find the boundries with her.
 

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I think you should just use the ballsy approach on this one. It's always better to default to action. Call her up and ask her out on a date, and make sure she knows you're asking her out on a date. If you don't, it's tacky.

First off, DON'T ASK HER IF SHE LIKES YOU!
Good advice. That's also tacky.

Also, don't say "I like you." The way I see it, when lions start doin' it, they don't say "I like you," they just do it.
 
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