How do you know she's really feeling you when she gives her number?

[razkay]

I have had circumstances when a girl will give me her number and I would think something would come out of it. I saw no outwardly signs she was just leading me on. I'm pretty well tuned to when a female will flake or if there was no connection. But I can still be tricked.

We all know girls give their numbers out to many men. But wouldn't she act a little different around the guys she intends to talk to again?

 

[Goldstar]

Make a hint about meeting her before you get the number. Say something like 'hey we should hangout/go dancing (whatever was relevant to the conversation) sometime'. If she seems interested and says something positive, then go ahead and ask her number. If she doesnt give you a positive response she will most likely not return your call

 

[HardTimes]

This day in age getting a number is worthless.

 

[nismo-4]

This day in age getting a number is worthless.

Unless you're rich and got high status. In most cases, if you're not attractive or you didn't pique the girl's interest, the # is null and void because she just don't wanna hurt your ass.

AKA she feels forced!

 

[Kal0051]

This day in age getting a number is worthless.

yep, the number is only the start

 

[jophil28]

I have had circumstances when a girl will give me her number and I would think something would come out of it. I saw no outwardly signs she was just leading me on. I'm pretty well tuned to when a female will flake or if there was no connection. But I can still be tricked.

We all know girls give their numbers out to many men. But wouldn't she act a little different around the guys she intends to talk to again?

The litmus test is whether she READILY accepts your invite to a followup date when you call her a few days later.

 

[Kal0051]

The litmus test is whether she READILY accepts your invite to a followup date when you call her a few days later.

I assume by "READILY" you mean that she'll answer yes right away and not giving you some messed up "I'll let you know". Lol, wish I had more of the former

 

[jophil28]

I assume by "READILY" you mean that she'll answer yes right away and not giving you some messed up "I'll let you know". Lol, wish I had more of the former

Yes, by " readily" I meant that she will give you positive signs that she WANTS to go out with you.

These responses are OK from her...
" Sounds great, what time ?"
" Damn, can't make it Friday, how about Saturday instead ?"
" Great, what will I wear ?"
" Wow, you do not waste time do you."
" I love Chinese/ Thai/ Italian/ Outer Mongolian food...."


Not OK..
" I will let you know.." (and she doesn't call back )
" Give me a call later in the week." ( and she won't pickup )
" Im busy all week/ weekend.."
" MY sister is arriving Friday.."
" MY B/f would not like me to date you."
" MY G/f would not like me to date you.."
" MY dog is having an emotional breakdown.."

You get the idea.