“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How do you know she's really feeling you when she gives her number?

razkay

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I have had circumstances when a girl will give me her number and I would think something would come out of it. I saw no outwardly signs she was just leading me on. I'm pretty well tuned to when a female will flake or if there was no connection. But I can still be tricked.

We all know girls give their numbers out to many men. But wouldn't she act a little different around the guys she intends to talk to again?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Make a hint about meeting her before you get the number. Say something like 'hey we should hangout/go dancing (whatever was relevant to the conversation) sometime'. If she seems interested and says something positive, then go ahead and ask her number. If she doesnt give you a positive response she will most likely not return your call
 

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HardTimes said:
This day in age getting a number is worthless.
Unless you're rich and got high status. In most cases, if you're not attractive or you didn't pique the girl's interest, the # is null and void because she just don't wanna hurt your ass.

AKA she feels forced!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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razkay said:
I have had circumstances when a girl will give me her number and I would think something would come out of it. I saw no outwardly signs she was just leading me on. I'm pretty well tuned to when a female will flake or if there was no connection. But I can still be tricked.

We all know girls give their numbers out to many men. But wouldn't she act a little different around the guys she intends to talk to again?
The litmus test is whether she READILY accepts your invite to a followup date when you call her a few days later.
 

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jophil28 said:
The litmus test is whether she READILY accepts your invite to a followup date when you call her a few days later.
I assume by "READILY" you mean that she'll answer yes right away and not giving you some messed up "I'll let you know". Lol, wish I had more of the former :p
 

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Kal0051 said:
I assume by "READILY" you mean that she'll answer yes right away and not giving you some messed up "I'll let you know". Lol, wish I had more of the former :p
Yes, by " readily" I meant that she will give you positive signs that she WANTS to go out with you.

These responses are OK from her...
" Sounds great, what time ?"
" Damn, can't make it Friday, how about Saturday instead ?"
" Great, what will I wear ?"
" Wow, you do not waste time do you."
" I love Chinese/ Thai/ Italian/ Outer Mongolian food...."


Not OK..
" I will let you know.." (and she doesn't call back )
" Give me a call later in the week." ( and she won't pickup )
" Im busy all week/ weekend.."
" MY sister is arriving Friday.."
" MY B/f would not like me to date you."
" MY G/f would not like me to date you.."
" MY dog is having an emotional breakdown.."

You get the idea.
 
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