"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How do you know if you're a good dancer or not?

TT2CiN

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^^ I'm talking the type of dancing that goes on in clubs. To hip hop and club music.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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skirtChaser

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if you don't know if you are a good dancer, I can tell you right now, you are not a good dancer. all good dancers know they are good dancers. there is no doubt in their mind.
 

WaterTiger

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If you're a GOOD dancer, people make a circle around you and applaud.
if you're a BAD dancer, people make a circle around you and laugh.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dilberto

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You're doing fine as a dancer.....as long as you don't raise those hands above your head.
 

TT2CiN

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The reason I ask is cuz two times I've been at a club, and drank a bit and started dancing away from the center like in the back to where not alot of ppl can see haha and then casually look around and seen a girl looking at me in a good kind of way with her eyes open (dilated pupils i think, and no they didn't look like they were laughing at me). The way I dance to club music when I'm drunk is bending my legs alot and swinging my hips kinda like how you're supposed to do when fvcking a girl missionary to hit her ****. If that makes any sense lol.
 

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Its all about how much confidence you have in your abilities, but it takes practice.

I had never been much of a dancer for much of my life, partly because I didn't think i could dance, so i never tried. but then, about three years ago, I began to dance at parties and clubs at least once every two weeks.

With so much practice, i became much better than most people i see at parties. Although finding dance partners is still a hassle. Most girls are friendly though, and won't turn me down when I offer my d!ck for them to grind on.

One example, when I went to study abroad while i was in college, there were about 15 guys in my program. Only one of them could out dance me, but not by much.

that gave so much confidence, that i felt like i was physically superior to most of the other guys. I wasn't the alpha male, but it still made me fell like I was in at some way more of sexual prize than they were, and therefore my confidence rose.

BTW, I learned how to dance by watching the fellas that do know how to dance. When i go out dancing to clubs and parties, I keep an eye out for the guys that dance really good and watch what moves they make and try to imitate those moves.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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