"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How do you know if you're a good dancer or not?

TT2CiN

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^^ I'm talking the type of dancing that goes on in clubs. To hip hop and club music.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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skirtChaser

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if you don't know if you are a good dancer, I can tell you right now, you are not a good dancer. all good dancers know they are good dancers. there is no doubt in their mind.
 

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If you're a GOOD dancer, people make a circle around you and applaud.
if you're a BAD dancer, people make a circle around you and laugh.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Dilberto

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You're doing fine as a dancer.....as long as you don't raise those hands above your head.
 

TT2CiN

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The reason I ask is cuz two times I've been at a club, and drank a bit and started dancing away from the center like in the back to where not alot of ppl can see haha and then casually look around and seen a girl looking at me in a good kind of way with her eyes open (dilated pupils i think, and no they didn't look like they were laughing at me). The way I dance to club music when I'm drunk is bending my legs alot and swinging my hips kinda like how you're supposed to do when fvcking a girl missionary to hit her ****. If that makes any sense lol.
 

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Its all about how much confidence you have in your abilities, but it takes practice.

I had never been much of a dancer for much of my life, partly because I didn't think i could dance, so i never tried. but then, about three years ago, I began to dance at parties and clubs at least once every two weeks.

With so much practice, i became much better than most people i see at parties. Although finding dance partners is still a hassle. Most girls are friendly though, and won't turn me down when I offer my d!ck for them to grind on.

One example, when I went to study abroad while i was in college, there were about 15 guys in my program. Only one of them could out dance me, but not by much.

that gave so much confidence, that i felt like i was physically superior to most of the other guys. I wasn't the alpha male, but it still made me fell like I was in at some way more of sexual prize than they were, and therefore my confidence rose.

BTW, I learned how to dance by watching the fellas that do know how to dance. When i go out dancing to clubs and parties, I keep an eye out for the guys that dance really good and watch what moves they make and try to imitate those moves.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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