I travel a lot for work and can't see women I've met for months at a time. Texting and phone builds comfort but I normally don't get the same thrill as when I'm there with them; it feels like it's missing an important part. Even when they flirt I don't get the same feeling of excitement I have when I see them; it's a rush looking into someone's eyes or being just physical enough to give them crave being with you. How do you keep sexual tension and intimacy high when you can't see them?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
How do you keep sexual tension and intimacy high on the phone and through texting?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I wrote a tip on this kind of thing here:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=180412
But generally, I really like to use texts to build sexual tension and anticipation. There's no guarantee you'll keep them interested if you're away for months; it depends on how much they like you. In some cases I've strung women along for upto 6 months before meeting and having sex, in other cases they've lost interest in a couple of days.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=180412
But generally, I really like to use texts to build sexual tension and anticipation. There's no guarantee you'll keep them interested if you're away for months; it depends on how much they like you. In some cases I've strung women along for upto 6 months before meeting and having sex, in other cases they've lost interest in a couple of days.