I travel a lot for work and can't see women I've met for months at a time. Texting and phone builds comfort but I normally don't get the same thrill as when I'm there with them; it feels like it's missing an important part. Even when they flirt I don't get the same feeling of excitement I have when I see them; it's a rush looking into someone's eyes or being just physical enough to give them crave being with you. How do you keep sexual tension and intimacy high when you can't see them?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How do you keep sexual tension and intimacy high on the phone and through texting?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I wrote a tip on this kind of thing here:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=180412
But generally, I really like to use texts to build sexual tension and anticipation. There's no guarantee you'll keep them interested if you're away for months; it depends on how much they like you. In some cases I've strung women along for upto 6 months before meeting and having sex, in other cases they've lost interest in a couple of days.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=180412
But generally, I really like to use texts to build sexual tension and anticipation. There's no guarantee you'll keep them interested if you're away for months; it depends on how much they like you. In some cases I've strung women along for upto 6 months before meeting and having sex, in other cases they've lost interest in a couple of days.