Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That isn't a valuable metric. Contact info is useless without a date attached to it. Approach to date ratio is the more meaningful metric. Since the process goes approach-date-sex, approach-sex ratio gets influenced by what happens on dates. Approaches turning into dates has a direct relationship.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Yes, and I agree. @oliver109 asked for that metric though, and I failed at more mobile thinking. Regarding the approach-date metric, it's pretty much non-existent.
Yeah. Personally I found @Jesse Pinkman's link to an article above in this thread very useful on how to improve day game.