"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do you handle this on the dance floor?

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I went out last night, trying to have a new focus on fun with... mixed results.

So I'm on the dance floor dancing with my friends and there's this girl behind me dancing with some dude. A couple seconds later, I feel somebody pinch my ass. I play it cool and control myself (ala DJing Pook style) but it happens about three more times.

I turned around this girl was blatantly pinching my butt while dancing with some guy! I didn't know what to do so I pulled her close and said something (can't remember what) and she walked off.

What happened here?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Nutz

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I get that where they grope, slap ass, or pinch like that. Turn around and they giggle and run off or something similar. It means they're attracted, but when you go to approach it's a massive BT spike and they overload. Used to get it all the time either driving or walking along. Girls would look, smile, I go to approach and they giggle fit and run/drive off because they don't know what to do.
 

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If you can't remember what you said, you must've been drunk.

If a girl pinches your ass, it's a call for attention. If I were you, I would've teased her "That's going to cost you $20 next time" ... or "Pinch one more time, and you buy me a drink."

Or on a lighter note... "Is that what your parents taught you?"
 

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One time, I was at a club and someone grabbed my butt. I turned around, and a girl admitted it was her and told me I had a nice butt. So I asked her if she wanted to dance but she said no. Go figure!
 

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SeanyB said:
I went out last night, trying to have a new focus on fun with... mixed results.

So I'm on the dance floor dancing with my friends and there's this girl behind me dancing with some dude. A couple seconds later, I feel somebody pinch my ass. I play it cool and control myself (ala DJing Pook style) but it happens about three more times.

I turned around this girl was blatantly pinching my butt while dancing with some guy! I didn't know what to do so I pulled her close and said something (can't remember what) and she walked off.

What happened here?
She did not want to talk she wanted to do freaky stuff like you feeling her up... ur slow dude.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SeanyB

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Allurre said:
If you can't remember what you said, you must've been drunk.
I definitely wasn't haha I think I just erased it from my memory.

It was probably soem lame attempt at C+F, go figure.

Anyway, I think I know what to do now, thanks guys.
 

pua1989

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i wouldve backed my áss up on her and started dancing like that, sandwiching her. if youre good at dancing the other guy will leave eventually
 
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