"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How do you handle this on the dance floor?

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I went out last night, trying to have a new focus on fun with... mixed results.

So I'm on the dance floor dancing with my friends and there's this girl behind me dancing with some dude. A couple seconds later, I feel somebody pinch my ass. I play it cool and control myself (ala DJing Pook style) but it happens about three more times.

I turned around this girl was blatantly pinching my butt while dancing with some guy! I didn't know what to do so I pulled her close and said something (can't remember what) and she walked off.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I get that where they grope, slap ass, or pinch like that. Turn around and they giggle and run off or something similar. It means they're attracted, but when you go to approach it's a massive BT spike and they overload. Used to get it all the time either driving or walking along. Girls would look, smile, I go to approach and they giggle fit and run/drive off because they don't know what to do.
 
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If you can't remember what you said, you must've been drunk.

If a girl pinches your ass, it's a call for attention. If I were you, I would've teased her "That's going to cost you $20 next time" ... or "Pinch one more time, and you buy me a drink."

Or on a lighter note... "Is that what your parents taught you?"
 
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One time, I was at a club and someone grabbed my butt. I turned around, and a girl admitted it was her and told me I had a nice butt. So I asked her if she wanted to dance but she said no. Go figure!
 
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SeanyB said:
I went out last night, trying to have a new focus on fun with... mixed results.

So I'm on the dance floor dancing with my friends and there's this girl behind me dancing with some dude. A couple seconds later, I feel somebody pinch my ass. I play it cool and control myself (ala DJing Pook style) but it happens about three more times.

I turned around this girl was blatantly pinching my butt while dancing with some guy! I didn't know what to do so I pulled her close and said something (can't remember what) and she walked off.

What happened here?
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She did not want to talk she wanted to do freaky stuff like you feeling her up... ur slow dude.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Allurre said:
If you can't remember what you said, you must've been drunk.
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I definitely wasn't haha I think I just erased it from my memory.

It was probably soem lame attempt at C+F, go figure.

Anyway, I think I know what to do now, thanks guys.
 
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i wouldve backed my áss up on her and started dancing like that, sandwiching her. if youre good at dancing the other guy will leave eventually
 
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