"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How do you handle this on the dance floor?

SeanyB

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I went out last night, trying to have a new focus on fun with... mixed results.

So I'm on the dance floor dancing with my friends and there's this girl behind me dancing with some dude. A couple seconds later, I feel somebody pinch my ass. I play it cool and control myself (ala DJing Pook style) but it happens about three more times.

I turned around this girl was blatantly pinching my butt while dancing with some guy! I didn't know what to do so I pulled her close and said something (can't remember what) and she walked off.

What happened here?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Nutz

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I get that where they grope, slap ass, or pinch like that. Turn around and they giggle and run off or something similar. It means they're attracted, but when you go to approach it's a massive BT spike and they overload. Used to get it all the time either driving or walking along. Girls would look, smile, I go to approach and they giggle fit and run/drive off because they don't know what to do.
 

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If you can't remember what you said, you must've been drunk.

If a girl pinches your ass, it's a call for attention. If I were you, I would've teased her "That's going to cost you $20 next time" ... or "Pinch one more time, and you buy me a drink."

Or on a lighter note... "Is that what your parents taught you?"
 

Juan_Man

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One time, I was at a club and someone grabbed my butt. I turned around, and a girl admitted it was her and told me I had a nice butt. So I asked her if she wanted to dance but she said no. Go figure!
 

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SeanyB said:
I went out last night, trying to have a new focus on fun with... mixed results.

So I'm on the dance floor dancing with my friends and there's this girl behind me dancing with some dude. A couple seconds later, I feel somebody pinch my ass. I play it cool and control myself (ala DJing Pook style) but it happens about three more times.

I turned around this girl was blatantly pinching my butt while dancing with some guy! I didn't know what to do so I pulled her close and said something (can't remember what) and she walked off.

What happened here?
She did not want to talk she wanted to do freaky stuff like you feeling her up... ur slow dude.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SeanyB

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Allurre said:
If you can't remember what you said, you must've been drunk.
I definitely wasn't haha I think I just erased it from my memory.

It was probably soem lame attempt at C+F, go figure.

Anyway, I think I know what to do now, thanks guys.
 

pua1989

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i wouldve backed my áss up on her and started dancing like that, sandwiching her. if youre good at dancing the other guy will leave eventually
 
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