"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do you handle the 3rd date?

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Any of you who have read many of my threads/posts know that I am very inexperienced with girls and dating.

How do you handle the 3rd date when the 3rd date is a meal at her place with her cooking? Are you supposed to go for the sex here or not?

Does making that move ruin your chances if you don't take it or does not doing so put you in the friendzone? (we have kissed on the first two dates).

I'm 24 and she's 25.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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Relax go with the flow and no you dont have to have sex.

If you're on a 3rd date she obviously likes you....just keep being yourself and she wont dump you, even if you dont have sex.
 
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A date isnt something you "handle", its not a homeless person stopping you on the street for money.

Enjoy your time with her, let your mind go away for awhile and all the ideas of should i do this should i do that. See her, communicate with her, really connect with what she is saying and doing instead of analyzing it as a means to an end. The rest will flow naturally.
 
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Ok so you don't think she will be expecting/wanting me to make the move?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hmm said:
Relax go with the flow and no you dont have to have sex.

If you're on a 3rd date she obviously likes you....just keep being yourself and she wont dump you, even if you dont have sex.
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at least one optimistic dude who doesnt obssess himself with mind games, dating stragetiges...
oh btw, u MUST fvck her, it's a third date. if not, she will flake you because you didnt escalate. that's what dating guru been telling me

my "uber lame/afc opinion" is also just to go with the flow and do whatever you want and feel comfortable.
 
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Hey OP did you end up losing your v-card yet? I remember a few months ago you stated that you were still a virgin
 
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Eternal_water said:
Any of you who have read many of my threads/posts know that I am very inexperienced with girls and dating.

How do you handle the 3rd date when the 3rd date is a meal at her place with her cooking? Are you supposed to go for the sex here or not?

Does making that move ruin your chances if you don't take it or does not doing so put you in the friendzone? (we have kissed on the first two dates).

I'm 24 and she's 25.
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On every date regardless of first date or what number, you always go for sex assuiming you are attracted to her...always put your desires first .
 
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Nah man. Look at it like this: you have a realistic chance at having sex on that date. Now you don't have to PLAN to have sex, and on how you are going to initiate it, and make strategies...

... man just go with the flow. Any way you'd want some kind of intimacy on a date where she cooks for you. The least thing would be to thank her with a kiss. Watch a movie on her couch afterwards?

Have you ever had sex before? Then you'll know that feeling when the date is going right, you're at her place, at some point you're both just feeling it. Your timing doesn't matter. You can just grab her.

If for some reason it doesn't happen: have a fun, relaxed and pleasant evening anyway. But even without sex, keep it sexual. Eye contact etc. You can still leave her with butterflies in her stomach.

If you're a virgin then you're probably desperate to have sex anyway. In that case: good luck.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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