How do you handle rude b!tches?

[onthepath]

say you come across a woman that you're interested in, or at least curious about, but she tries to be funny and then crosses the line to being simply rude, how do you handle it?

for instance, there's this girl and we;ve got this all day training thing coming up - she's not very attractive but i would like to know how to handle this generic situation

we've been exchanging a few emails (just about the training session) with some sarcastic humour, and she's now being a downright b!tch

so, i've completley ignored her, and am curious as to how i should handle the training session seeing as how we're together for the whole day (and assuming she doesn't try to contact again)

i'm thinking i continue to ignore her, and when she calls me on it with "ooh i've hurt your feelings" or she accuses me of being a wuss or something, i'm just going to tell her that the reason i'm ignoring her is because she's just not worth my time

 

[Nighthawk]

Don't let people get you on the defensive. Counter with 'You're quite an angry person aren't you?' or 'Have you considered Prozac?'

 

[synergy1]

I have nothing to prove. My time is more valuable that wasting it on a worthless human being. I move on quickly saying little. A snide remark does nothing for you.

 

[L B]

When they cross the line and become rude, you place them on the ignore list. There are more productive things in life to waste your time on.

 

[ElStud]

I just ignore stuff like that. I mean you can react to it if you want to, but in the end, it's just pointless.

 

[reset]

i'm thinking i continue to ignore her, and when she calls me on it with "ooh i've hurt your feelings" or she accuses me of being a wuss or something, i'm just going to tell her that the reason i'm ignoring her is because she's just not worth my time

That's one option, the other option is she'll become obsessed with you.

Don't explain yourself or make excuses. You both know she's acting bytchy. You're under no obligation to give her a reason why you want to make sure it's ok if you ignore her for being a bytch. You make these decisions.

Just act bored and dis-interested around her, like she's not even there really, and you're only talking to her when you must, and let her know through your actions that you're making the best of it but would rather not even see her.

Better yet, just act like she's anyone else you hardly know that you have no emotional investment in. Her ego will take a nose-dive.

 

[HalfAddict]

Can we see the mails?

It's really hard to be sarcastic on the internet.

 

[onthepath]

hmm, so two schools of thought, either C+F or ignore her

guess i'll wait and see what type of mood i'm in

thanks guys

the other option is just go flirt with everyone else there but her eh

 

[reset]

the other option is just go flirt with everyone else there but her eh

It's the same thing. Bottom line is she's not earning your attention, so your attention goes elsewhere.