"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How do you handle rude b!tches?

onthepath

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say you come across a woman that you're interested in, or at least curious about, but she tries to be funny and then crosses the line to being simply rude, how do you handle it?

for instance, there's this girl and we;ve got this all day training thing coming up - she's not very attractive but i would like to know how to handle this generic situation

we've been exchanging a few emails (just about the training session) with some sarcastic humour, and she's now being a downright b!tch

so, i've completley ignored her, and am curious as to how i should handle the training session seeing as how we're together for the whole day (and assuming she doesn't try to contact again)

i'm thinking i continue to ignore her, and when she calls me on it with "ooh i've hurt your feelings" or she accuses me of being a wuss or something, i'm just going to tell her that the reason i'm ignoring her is because she's just not worth my time
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don't let people get you on the defensive. Counter with 'You're quite an angry person aren't you?' or 'Have you considered Prozac?'
 

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I have nothing to prove. My time is more valuable that wasting it on a worthless human being. I move on quickly saying little. A snide remark does nothing for you.
 

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When they cross the line and become rude, you place them on the ignore list. There are more productive things in life to waste your time on.
 

ElStud

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I just ignore stuff like that. I mean you can react to it if you want to, but in the end, it's just pointless.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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onthepath said:
i'm thinking i continue to ignore her, and when she calls me on it with "ooh i've hurt your feelings" or she accuses me of being a wuss or something, i'm just going to tell her that the reason i'm ignoring her is because she's just not worth my time
That's one option, the other option is she'll become obsessed with you.

Don't explain yourself or make excuses. You both know she's acting bytchy. You're under no obligation to give her a reason why you want to make sure it's ok if you ignore her for being a bytch. You make these decisions.

Just act bored and dis-interested around her, like she's not even there really, and you're only talking to her when you must, and let her know through your actions that you're making the best of it but would rather not even see her.

Better yet, just act like she's anyone else you hardly know that you have no emotional investment in. Her ego will take a nose-dive.
 

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hmm, so two schools of thought, either C+F or ignore her

guess i'll wait and see what type of mood i'm in

thanks guys

the other option is just go flirt with everyone else there but her eh ;)
 

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onthepath said:
the other option is just go flirt with everyone else there but her eh ;)
It's the same thing. Bottom line is she's not earning your attention, so your attention goes elsewhere.
 
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