"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How do you handle lies?

GetFit66

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How do you guys handle lies? Not asking about any particular type or severity of lie, anything is fine.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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CuddleJunkie

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Small lie:
When I had a gf I would discipline her, now when I get lied I just don't give a ****. So it depends on your level of committment to the girl in my opinion.
Big lie:
Drop that b¡tch.
 

Alvafe

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here is the thing about lies, everyone does it, and the reason is because its works, everyone know then that guy lied about getting late, but people lie they belive on his lie.

so you can't just come here and ask about what you think of lies, everyone does, since i'm blunt and tell the truth more often then I should, most people find me annoying, then I learned to make it sound like a joke then I could tell the truth and people would laught or smile and let it go.

you need to tell us how big is the lie, how well you know people lie, and how cool and in control you can be to use it agaisnt the person in a later date
 

Yewki

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How do you guys handle lies?
The same way you handle an argument. Be calm and mature, but let them know where you stand. If they want to keep arguing, it's just noise. You have better things to do.
 
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