RSDCharlie
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As the title suggests, how do you stop yourself from kicking your bosses in the face?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How do you handle high job stress?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
mrgoodstuff
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We should all master communication enough that going physical is almost never necessary.
RSDCharlie
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You think bosses are manipulative ****heads because we don't communicate with them enough
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mrgoodstuff
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If we can kick them in the head without kicking them in the head.... Master communications...You think bosses are manipulative ****heads because we don't communicate with them enough
RSDCharlie
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I don't think abusing them will help. But would love to know some examples.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
mrgoodstuff
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If you've mastered it they won't know it's "abuse".
RSDCharlie
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Any examples? I told my boss today youre the worst boss ever. But i dont think saying that would cut it anymore.
mrgoodstuff
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It's other people better at it than me, it would be done in a way that they don't figure it out until some time later.
you take things to serious
saying this kind of things only leads to you getting fired soon
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
EyeBRollin
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Find another job. You handle it by not handling it.
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What you describe isn't stress. I have an old boss in my hit list for if I ever have nothing to lose and the right chemical imbalance in my brain.
Veréngárda
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Basically. Putting up with things like that will only make you more sensitive to those things.
This idea of being "toughened up" by genuinely terrible leadership is a myth.