RSDCharlie
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 9, 2021
- Messages
- 157
- Reaction score
- 96
As the title suggests, how do you stop yourself from kicking your bosses in the face?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How do you handle high job stress?
- Thread starter RSDCharlie
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
We should all master communication enough that going physical is almost never necessary.
RSDCharlie
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 9, 2021
- Messages
- 157
- Reaction score
- 96
You think bosses are manipulative ****heads because we don't communicate with them enough
??
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
If we can kick them in the head without kicking them in the head.... Master communications...You think bosses are manipulative ****heads because we don't communicate with them enough
RSDCharlie
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 9, 2021
- Messages
- 157
- Reaction score
- 96
I don't think abusing them will help. But would love to know some examples.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
If you've mastered it they won't know it's "abuse".
RSDCharlie
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 9, 2021
- Messages
- 157
- Reaction score
- 96
Any examples? I told my boss today youre the worst boss ever. But i dont think saying that would cut it anymore.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
It's other people better at it than me, it would be done in a way that they don't figure it out until some time later.
you take things to serious
saying this kind of things only leads to you getting fired soon
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
EyeBRollin
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 18, 2015
- Messages
- 10,536
- Reaction score
- 8,536
- Age
- 37
Find another job. You handle it by not handling it.
firstbornunicorn
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 2, 2020
- Messages
- 781
- Reaction score
- 711
- Age
- 33
What you describe isn't stress. I have an old boss in my hit list for if I ever have nothing to lose and the right chemical imbalance in my brain.
Veréngárda
Banned
- Joined
- May 1, 2022
- Messages
- 233
- Reaction score
- 59
- Age
- 29
Basically. Putting up with things like that will only make you more sensitive to those things.
This idea of being "toughened up" by genuinely terrible leadership is a myth.