We are all very familiar with the ways women let guys down, but if a woman asks you out and you're not interested, how do you turn them down?
If it's an outright and obvious proposition, I often tell her I'm seeing someone or I've just got out of a relationship.
If it's a casual proposition, like "Wanna come out tonight?" I make out I have other plans.
If a girl asks for my number, I give it out regardless.
If a girl is expressing an ongoing interest, then I usually drop hints into my conversations, such as "I'm holding off dating until after my studies".
I'll never lead a woman on or suddenly turn cold on her, and I think it's cruel giving the long and insincere "You're a great girl and I like you, but..." speech. So I usually try not to draw attention to it, or act naive, as if I don't know they're asking me out.
I'm curious how everyone else handles these situations and if there are any similarities between male and female brush offs.
If it's an outright and obvious proposition, I often tell her I'm seeing someone or I've just got out of a relationship.
If it's a casual proposition, like "Wanna come out tonight?" I make out I have other plans.
If a girl asks for my number, I give it out regardless.
If a girl is expressing an ongoing interest, then I usually drop hints into my conversations, such as "I'm holding off dating until after my studies".
I'll never lead a woman on or suddenly turn cold on her, and I think it's cruel giving the long and insincere "You're a great girl and I like you, but..." speech. So I usually try not to draw attention to it, or act naive, as if I don't know they're asking me out.
I'm curious how everyone else handles these situations and if there are any similarities between male and female brush offs.
