"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how do you guys plan on where to meet on your date?

chance

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i find it a little awkward when i get to this part. like just before when i was on the phone.. i mean the woman is waiting on me to sort the date out and where to meet. problem is i dont get out that much and i dont know many places lol. so i just said lets meet in the city, have a walk and get to know each other etc and i mean shes diggin me real bad cause she kept laughing all the time at my jokes etc. by the way, the city is abour an hour train ride for me. she lives closer up that way though and we both don't drive so i dunno when to plant moves.

how do you guys deal with this part? also, how should i play this out.. we are meeting at lunch time. how long do i hang out with her? i suppose i wont be able to go for a kiss in public at the end of the date right? would really like some advice on the kiss and where to meet situation.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Get out more and compile a list of the places you're fond of. Be it Coffee Shop, Tea House, Bar, Club, Fancy Restaurant, Pool Hall, Bowling Alley, Riding Course, Golf Course, Pool etc. You need to know your environment.

And when opportunity rises pick the venue accordingly.

Good luck!
 

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Myrrdin said:
Get out more and compile a list of the places you're fond of. Be it Coffee Shop, Tea House, Bar, Club, Fancy Restaurant, Pool Hall, Bowling Alley, Riding Course, Golf Course, Pool etc. You need to know your environment.

And when opportunity rises pick the venue accordingly.

Good luck!
Agreed. When you're out be cognizant of bounce locations. Your mindset needs to be, "if I were to meet a chick right now, here would I take her to build comfort." Write these places down. If possible try them out.
 
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