"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how do you guys plan on where to meet on your date?

chance

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i find it a little awkward when i get to this part. like just before when i was on the phone.. i mean the woman is waiting on me to sort the date out and where to meet. problem is i dont get out that much and i dont know many places lol. so i just said lets meet in the city, have a walk and get to know each other etc and i mean shes diggin me real bad cause she kept laughing all the time at my jokes etc. by the way, the city is abour an hour train ride for me. she lives closer up that way though and we both don't drive so i dunno when to plant moves.

how do you guys deal with this part? also, how should i play this out.. we are meeting at lunch time. how long do i hang out with her? i suppose i wont be able to go for a kiss in public at the end of the date right? would really like some advice on the kiss and where to meet situation.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Get out more and compile a list of the places you're fond of. Be it Coffee Shop, Tea House, Bar, Club, Fancy Restaurant, Pool Hall, Bowling Alley, Riding Course, Golf Course, Pool etc. You need to know your environment.

And when opportunity rises pick the venue accordingly.

Good luck!
 

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Myrrdin said:
Get out more and compile a list of the places you're fond of. Be it Coffee Shop, Tea House, Bar, Club, Fancy Restaurant, Pool Hall, Bowling Alley, Riding Course, Golf Course, Pool etc. You need to know your environment.

And when opportunity rises pick the venue accordingly.

Good luck!
Agreed. When you're out be cognizant of bounce locations. Your mindset needs to be, "if I were to meet a chick right now, here would I take her to build comfort." Write these places down. If possible try them out.
 
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