"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How do you guys open?

Kbomb

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Naughty Ninja said:
Next time you see her you can just say something funny if you know she's checking you out. Like: "I lift things up and put them down." in that dudes voice from the gym commercial. She's most likely seen it and will start laughing with you then just ask her her name and give yours and go from there.

I was in the gym once and this girl was working out with a trainer near me. I knew she was looking so I said out loud to myself while benching: "Help me baby Jesus!" and she started laughing. After I finished I told the trainer out loud: "Ask her if she's impressed." and she started laughing even more. Then I just went and said hello and BS'd from there.

This is great stuff.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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betheman

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if she is really interested in you, it doesnt really matter what you say, just that you say something.
 
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