"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kbomb

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Naughty Ninja said:
Next time you see her you can just say something funny if you know she's checking you out. Like: "I lift things up and put them down." in that dudes voice from the gym commercial. She's most likely seen it and will start laughing with you then just ask her her name and give yours and go from there.

I was in the gym once and this girl was working out with a trainer near me. I knew she was looking so I said out loud to myself while benching: "Help me baby Jesus!" and she started laughing. After I finished I told the trainer out loud: "Ask her if she's impressed." and she started laughing even more. Then I just went and said hello and BS'd from there.

This is great stuff.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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if she is really interested in you, it doesnt really matter what you say, just that you say something.
 
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