"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do you guys open?

Kbomb

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Naughty Ninja said:
Next time you see her you can just say something funny if you know she's checking you out. Like: "I lift things up and put them down." in that dudes voice from the gym commercial. She's most likely seen it and will start laughing with you then just ask her her name and give yours and go from there.

I was in the gym once and this girl was working out with a trainer near me. I knew she was looking so I said out loud to myself while benching: "Help me baby Jesus!" and she started laughing. After I finished I told the trainer out loud: "Ask her if she's impressed." and she started laughing even more. Then I just went and said hello and BS'd from there.

This is great stuff.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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if she is really interested in you, it doesnt really matter what you say, just that you say something.
 
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