"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How do you guys get along with your female cousins?

NealIRC

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Do you have each other's number? You don't text her to ask her out, you text her to text her. If you guys eat out dinner together, there's nothing wrong with that and being boring for example, etc.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If a man happens to live in the same city as a female cousin, she could be a good social circle connection for finding dates.
 

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If a man happens to live in the same city as a female cousin, she could be a good social circle connection for finding dates.
I remember a 2nd cousin of mine that had a hot friend - and somehow I could tell that age 13 she was destined to become an uber-Stacy (and she did :cool: ); as you could have guessed, she would ghost me while I was trying to talk to her. :(
 

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Anyone with deep roots in the USA probably has some "multiplicity" of ancestors, as the small rural communities of old were typically populated by a small cohort of First Families such that it was pretty hard to not match up with a 2nd (or 1st :eek:) cousin.
 
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