Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How do you guys get along with your female cousins?

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Do you have each other's number? You don't text her to ask her out, you text her to text her. If you guys eat out dinner together, there's nothing wrong with that and being boring for example, etc.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If a man happens to live in the same city as a female cousin, she could be a good social circle connection for finding dates.
 

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If a man happens to live in the same city as a female cousin, she could be a good social circle connection for finding dates.
I remember a 2nd cousin of mine that had a hot friend - and somehow I could tell that age 13 she was destined to become an uber-Stacy (and she did :cool: ); as you could have guessed, she would ghost me while I was trying to talk to her. :(
 

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Anyone with deep roots in the USA probably has some "multiplicity" of ancestors, as the small rural communities of old were typically populated by a small cohort of First Families such that it was pretty hard to not match up with a 2nd (or 1st :eek:) cousin.
 
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