"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do you go from a massage to sex? all tips welcome, she's getting here in an hour.

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There's this hot/horny chick that I've been lusting over for the past two weeks. I got her to come over to my house for a massage by telling her that I was a student who nweesed practice . now I'm not new to massage, but I'm not a pro either. what are some tips both "massage oriented" and in general to help set the mood and get her horny enough for sex? .
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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theirs a spot right below the lower back, and right above the ass...

it feels REALLY good to rub that.

do some gentle carresing as well.

get sexual with talking as well...use ur head brah
 

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Obameros said:
There's this hot/horny chick that I've been lusting over for the past two weeks. I got her to come over to my house for a massage by telling her that I was a student who nweesed practice . now I'm not new to massage, but I'm not a pro either. what are some tips both "massage oriented" and in general to help set the mood and get her horny enough for sex? .

are you serious?

no

Im serious are you serious?
 

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If you know her already then it should be easy. Massages are probably the easiest way to get to sex. Just make it sensual and fun for her and you should be in her pants in no time. Don't focus just on the interesting bits that us guys like - places like her thighs, calves, biceps and triceps all have large muscles and it feels good for for them to rubbed and stuff. Since thighs are generally fairly thick compared to other body parts, you may need to use two hands to cover the full area.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thanks slaog!
Solomon: are you talking to me or yourself?
Thank mr. Rogers!

So far I've dim lighting, enigma
Music, essential oils in the air, a very comfortable bed, and a little alcohol that I drank to calm any nerves I might get.
 

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Get her to take her shirt off.
 

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this is what you do.....rub her ass and say oopss...lol

just you rubbing on her should make her cream....if done properly
 

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i will tell you now massage gets you laid. i've done it to so many girls at parties. ive had one girl even whisper into my ear that she was horny. i didn't fuk her though... she was seeing my friend :eek:

chicks LOVE a massage and im going to give one to my date tonight ;)

p.s; i use to do message therapy for years.
 

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Thanks for your help. :)
It took a little while, cause she kept saying no to my advancements but all of her movements were saying**** yes. like she was saying "I can't be doing this, I don't even know you that well, but then she would start grinding against me. usually, as an afc, I would listen to her words and back off but I kept persisting and succeed. again thanks, I took all of your advice
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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Hahaha, congrats to the OP! Way to put what you learn into practice!

I'd wish you luck Montana, but something tells me you won't need it. :cool:
 
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