There's this hot/horny chick that I've been lusting over for the past two weeks. I got her to come over to my house for a massage by telling her that I was a student who nweesed practice . now I'm not new to massage, but I'm not a pro either. what are some tips both "massage oriented" and in general to help set the mood and get her horny enough for sex? .
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How do you go from a massage to sex? all tips welcome, she's getting here in an hour.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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theirs a spot right below the lower back, and right above the ass...
it feels REALLY good to rub that.
do some gentle carresing as well.
get sexual with talking as well...use ur head brah
it feels REALLY good to rub that.
do some gentle carresing as well.
get sexual with talking as well...use ur head brah
Its easy to lead to sex when doing a massage 
Start off normally and then start massaging nearer and nearer to the breasts etc. If she's enjoying it keep getting more sexual. She probably knows it'll lead to sex anyway.
Start off normally and then start massaging nearer and nearer to the breasts etc. If she's enjoying it keep getting more sexual. She probably knows it'll lead to sex anyway.
Solomon
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Obameros said:
are you serious?
no
Im serious are you serious?
Mr_rogers
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If you know her already then it should be easy. Massages are probably the easiest way to get to sex. Just make it sensual and fun for her and you should be in her pants in no time. Don't focus just on the interesting bits that us guys like - places like her thighs, calves, biceps and triceps all have large muscles and it feels good for for them to rubbed and stuff. Since thighs are generally fairly thick compared to other body parts, you may need to use two hands to cover the full area.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Thanks slaog!
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So far I've dim lighting, enigma
Music, essential oils in the air, a very comfortable bed, and a little alcohol that I drank to calm any nerves I might get.
Solomon: are you talking to me or yourself?
Thank mr. Rogers!
So far I've dim lighting, enigma
Music, essential oils in the air, a very comfortable bed, and a little alcohol that I drank to calm any nerves I might get.
tony-montana
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i will tell you now massage gets you laid. i've done it to so many girls at parties. ive had one girl even whisper into my ear that she was horny. i didn't fuk her though... she was seeing my friend
chicks LOVE a massage and im going to give one to my date tonight
p.s; i use to do message therapy for years.
chicks LOVE a massage and im going to give one to my date tonight
p.s; i use to do message therapy for years.
Thanks for your help.
It took a little while, cause she kept saying no to my advancements but all of her movements were saying**** yes. like she was saying "I can't be doing this, I don't even know you that well, but then she would start grinding against me. usually, as an afc, I would listen to her words and back off but I kept persisting and succeed. again thanks, I took all of your advice
It took a little while, cause she kept saying no to my advancements but all of her movements were saying**** yes. like she was saying "I can't be doing this, I don't even know you that well, but then she would start grinding against me. usually, as an afc, I would listen to her words and back off but I kept persisting and succeed. again thanks, I took all of your advice
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
BongDuy
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so you got laid?! lol
tony-montana
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only three hours until i'm doin the same thing. my date ;P
Mr_rogers
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Hahaha, congrats to the OP! Way to put what you learn into practice!
I'd wish you luck Montana, but something tells me you won't need it.
I'd wish you luck Montana, but something tells me you won't need it.