"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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how do you go about this situation

omgsurf

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your at a bar/club and theres a girl getting hit on by guy after guy after guy and you wanna talk to her? How you do you go about doing this without her seeing you as just another guy?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wiesman44

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thats the whole purpose of this site my friend. Search this site, and read the abundance of information it provides. There's plenty to learn .
 

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Walk up to her and interrupt the conversation:
"Hi I'm <insert your name> umm... where do I take a number?" <smile>

Then walk away - she'll get your attention later on in the night.
 

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There's plenty of ways of opening a conversation with her. Ask her an open-ended question that has nothing to do with the place you're at. One of my favorite lines from hitchikers guide is "Would you like to go for a ride in my spaceship?" Although i'm not recommending it, sometimes it's a funny line to throw into a conversation that'll make her laugh.

"yea baby, porsche makes spaceships now"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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