"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how do you go about this situation

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omgsurf

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your at a bar/club and theres a girl getting hit on by guy after guy after guy and you wanna talk to her? How you do you go about doing this without her seeing you as just another guy?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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thats the whole purpose of this site my friend. Search this site, and read the abundance of information it provides. There's plenty to learn .
 
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Walk up to her and interrupt the conversation:
"Hi I'm <insert your name> umm... where do I take a number?" <smile>

Then walk away - she'll get your attention later on in the night.
 
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There's plenty of ways of opening a conversation with her. Ask her an open-ended question that has nothing to do with the place you're at. One of my favorite lines from hitchikers guide is "Would you like to go for a ride in my spaceship?" Although i'm not recommending it, sometimes it's a funny line to throw into a conversation that'll make her laugh.

"yea baby, porsche makes spaceships now"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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