Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Stop offering/inviting chicks to go on dates, until, one, you have bed them, and you are ok with paying for the whole thing, or until they treat you to something, by paying.chrisgoodrich25 said:went on couple dates with this chick..once out to eat..once just to the bar..both times she didn't offer to pay for ****..Supposed to go out again on thursday to the movies I got $40.00..any suggestions on how I could get her to split the cost of snacks at the movie theater?
Gangster Of Love said:Stop offering/inviting chicks to go on dates, until, one, you have bed them, and you are ok with paying for the whole thing, or until they treat you to something, by paying.
Another alternative is to suggest/invite her to cook for you.
I just decided that Im gona call her tomarrow..tell her Some unexpected bills came up..so i wont be able to afford going out..and that if she still wants to get together I got a bottle of some spiced rum and some beer..we can kick it at my place and watch a movie here..whatcha think?
chrisgoodrich25 said:I just decided that Im gona call her tomarrow..tell her Some unexpected bills came up..so i wont be able to afford going out..and that if she still wants to get together I got a bottle of some spiced rum and some beer..we can kick it at my place and watch a movie here..whatcha think?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Is your goal to remain friends with this person you took to the movies? If she's just a friend, and you are not planning hitting on her later, then there is no problem you paying her way.omega05 said:this is relevant to me. i paid for the first two times i took a friend out to the movies