You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Stop offering/inviting chicks to go on dates, until, one, you have bed them, and you are ok with paying for the whole thing, or until they treat you to something, by paying.chrisgoodrich25 said:went on couple dates with this chick..once out to eat..once just to the bar..both times she didn't offer to pay for ****..Supposed to go out again on thursday to the movies I got $40.00..any suggestions on how I could get her to split the cost of snacks at the movie theater?
Gangster Of Love said:Stop offering/inviting chicks to go on dates, until, one, you have bed them, and you are ok with paying for the whole thing, or until they treat you to something, by paying.
Another alternative is to suggest/invite her to cook for you.
I just decided that Im gona call her tomarrow..tell her Some unexpected bills came up..so i wont be able to afford going out..and that if she still wants to get together I got a bottle of some spiced rum and some beer..we can kick it at my place and watch a movie here..whatcha think?
chrisgoodrich25 said:I just decided that Im gona call her tomarrow..tell her Some unexpected bills came up..so i wont be able to afford going out..and that if she still wants to get together I got a bottle of some spiced rum and some beer..we can kick it at my place and watch a movie here..whatcha think?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Is your goal to remain friends with this person you took to the movies? If she's just a friend, and you are not planning hitting on her later, then there is no problem you paying her way.omega05 said:this is relevant to me. i paid for the first two times i took a friend out to the movies