"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How do you get to kiss close?

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Themanthatcan

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Just a little poll here, but how do you personally initiate a kiss close? Any lines, techniques? -Or do you just feel it out? Simple question


Thanks for the input.


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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lean in and pucker your lips. Try it sometime. It really works. I swear.
 
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tell her she has something on her lips. :)
 
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Ha.Nice Addman. After Hugging her I usually tease her saying she doesn't know how to give a proper hug. Then I go "If your this bad at hugging, you must REALLY suck at kissing.She denies it. I tell her to prove it. Rest is history.


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Eventually you'll get to the point when you "know" you can kiss her.

Until then my favorite test was something simple I made up.

"What would you do if I kissed you?"

You can't say this out of the blue, there had to be some tension going on. And you gotta deliver it right. Look into her eyes, and say it confidently like you don't give a **** what her answer is.

If she freaks out, runs away, and generally gives you a bad answer. Then go "I was just kidding"

If she says yes, or I don't know, then just kiss her.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ha. Good, master. MD3- I know. It shouldn't be a big deal, but somehow I always find a way to make it one.I guess using a line is just kinda like a reassurance or something. Who knows?
 
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Some of those ideas seem try hard. "You have something on you're lip"?

hahaha

Anyway, the best way and to go for kiss is do "triangualr gazing".

Slow down your speaking, triangular gaze, and get closer. This is so solid and powerful. If you don't believe me try it on a close friend. (male and non gay) Don't get closer and slow down speaking, but triangular gaze and he will notice the gayness from doing it.
 
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Snow Plowman said:
Slow down your speaking, triangular gaze, and get closer. This is so solid and powerful. If you don't believe me try it on a close friend. (male and non gay)
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its a good technique, but I dont recommend doing it on a guy friend
 
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On past successful kiss closes, just say "kiss" near the end of the date. Otherwise, it's some subconcious type of intereaction, if she's receptive to receiving a kiss, then naturally the subconcious minds will interact and a kiss will result if you are motivated to do it, and she's open to entertaining it. If there is a 'wall' around her, (i.e. friendzone or the date went badly, etc...), then you'll find that it just doesn't happen, or you cant connect with her that way.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Luke Skywalker said:
On past successful kiss closes, just say "kiss" near the end of the date. Otherwise, it's some subconcious type of intereaction, if she's receptive to receiving a kiss, then naturally the subconcious minds will interact and a kiss will result if you are motivated to do it, and she's open to entertaining it. If there is a 'wall' around her, (i.e. friendzone or the date went badly, etc...), then you'll find that it just doesn't happen, or you cant connect with her that way.
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ok VIRGIN, stop with the advice bro
 
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I think this is why so many people here have problems when you're thinking like, "how do you get to kiss close?" What an awful question.

Get to? No confidence. And how to do it? Here's your big answer (surprise!):

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Kiss her.
 
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