"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do you get to kiss close?

Themanthatcan

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Just a little poll here, but how do you personally initiate a kiss close? Any lines, techniques? -Or do you just feel it out? Simple question


Thanks for the input.


TMTC
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ryannath

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Lean in and pucker your lips. Try it sometime. It really works. I swear.
 

THE_ADDMAN

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tell her she has something on her lips. :)
 

Themanthatcan

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Ha.Nice Addman. After Hugging her I usually tease her saying she doesn't know how to give a proper hug. Then I go "If your this bad at hugging, you must REALLY suck at kissing.She denies it. I tell her to prove it. Rest is history.


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Eventually you'll get to the point when you "know" you can kiss her.

Until then my favorite test was something simple I made up.

"What would you do if I kissed you?"

You can't say this out of the blue, there had to be some tension going on. And you gotta deliver it right. Look into her eyes, and say it confidently like you don't give a **** what her answer is.

If she freaks out, runs away, and generally gives you a bad answer. Then go "I was just kidding"

If she says yes, or I don't know, then just kiss her.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Themanthatcan

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Ha. Good, master. MD3- I know. It shouldn't be a big deal, but somehow I always find a way to make it one.I guess using a line is just kinda like a reassurance or something. Who knows?
 

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Some of those ideas seem try hard. "You have something on you're lip"?

hahaha

Anyway, the best way and to go for kiss is do "triangualr gazing".

Slow down your speaking, triangular gaze, and get closer. This is so solid and powerful. If you don't believe me try it on a close friend. (male and non gay) Don't get closer and slow down speaking, but triangular gaze and he will notice the gayness from doing it.
 

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Snow Plowman said:
Slow down your speaking, triangular gaze, and get closer. This is so solid and powerful. If you don't believe me try it on a close friend. (male and non gay)
:nervous:

its a good technique, but I dont recommend doing it on a guy friend
 
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On past successful kiss closes, just say "kiss" near the end of the date. Otherwise, it's some subconcious type of intereaction, if she's receptive to receiving a kiss, then naturally the subconcious minds will interact and a kiss will result if you are motivated to do it, and she's open to entertaining it. If there is a 'wall' around her, (i.e. friendzone or the date went badly, etc...), then you'll find that it just doesn't happen, or you cant connect with her that way.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

LA_Chico

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Luke Skywalker said:
On past successful kiss closes, just say "kiss" near the end of the date. Otherwise, it's some subconcious type of intereaction, if she's receptive to receiving a kiss, then naturally the subconcious minds will interact and a kiss will result if you are motivated to do it, and she's open to entertaining it. If there is a 'wall' around her, (i.e. friendzone or the date went badly, etc...), then you'll find that it just doesn't happen, or you cant connect with her that way.
ok VIRGIN, stop with the advice bro
 

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I think this is why so many people here have problems when you're thinking like, "how do you get to kiss close?" What an awful question.

Get to? No confidence. And how to do it? Here's your big answer (surprise!):

................

Kiss her.
 
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