"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How do you get them to chase you?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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derby1

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You chase for the date

you hopefully get this date

you show her your the main man on the date, the kind who climbs mount ****ing everest in ya boxer shorts with no harness

you **** her and make love to her in the same night to confuse her

when she leaves yours, never initiate any convo with her

30 mins to 3 days from her leaving will tell you everything you need to know
 

lizardking82

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1) You don't display your value to anyone, that's afro-attentionseeking behaviour. You build your value cause you enjoy it and your value is ON DISPLAY for them to see. You're not showcasing it, you're not Toyota LOL

2) You don't get them to chase you or not. They get to chase what they feel and think is a valuable man to them.

Do not boggle your mind so much with this. I promise you if you go about your life, try and have fun and do something you love and at the mean time, spark conversations where you feel like it with women, at the mall, in the street, at the grocery store, online, wherever, you will do fine. I promise you. You worry too much about it, Richard.
 

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2) You don't get them to chase you or not. They get to chase what they feel and think is a valuable man to them.
thats what i meant they chase a guy who excites the **** out of her cause hes doing it anyway she wants to be part of his good time.....and he sexes her good that always helps, plus like i said you never text a woman after the first date its not a game its male behaviour, females text the nice time they had not men
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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