"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do you get them to chase you?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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derby1

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You chase for the date

you hopefully get this date

you show her your the main man on the date, the kind who climbs mount ****ing everest in ya boxer shorts with no harness

you **** her and make love to her in the same night to confuse her

when she leaves yours, never initiate any convo with her

30 mins to 3 days from her leaving will tell you everything you need to know
 

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1) You don't display your value to anyone, that's afro-attentionseeking behaviour. You build your value cause you enjoy it and your value is ON DISPLAY for them to see. You're not showcasing it, you're not Toyota LOL

2) You don't get them to chase you or not. They get to chase what they feel and think is a valuable man to them.

Do not boggle your mind so much with this. I promise you if you go about your life, try and have fun and do something you love and at the mean time, spark conversations where you feel like it with women, at the mall, in the street, at the grocery store, online, wherever, you will do fine. I promise you. You worry too much about it, Richard.
 

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2) You don't get them to chase you or not. They get to chase what they feel and think is a valuable man to them.
thats what i meant they chase a guy who excites the **** out of her cause hes doing it anyway she wants to be part of his good time.....and he sexes her good that always helps, plus like i said you never text a woman after the first date its not a game its male behaviour, females text the nice time they had not men
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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