How do you get rid of the need/want to impress women?

[TheSlasher]

This really clouds my judgment, like in business. Like for example, I find myself wanting (take note: I didn't do it yet) to talk business with my people on phone while a chick that is sort of my type is beside me, when I'd rather not do it when I'm with other people, for example, my friends.

This is really stupid. Come to think of it. There are people that will only have to breathe in order to make as much as I'm making within a year. It also makes me anxious on wanting to make money sooner. Like really man, this is stupid.

I don't want to impress anybody, at least not women. I just want to hold myself with a poise out of something that comes from within. Not money. Not wealth. Not women. Something noble and truly honorable or something.

What can you say guys?

Thanks.

 

[Desdinova]

There's nothing wrong with wanting to impress women, but you need to do it in a way that's attractive to her. If you've got a kickass personality and a great sense of humour, that's what you use to impress her.

Actually, "impress" is a lousy word to use. "Attract" would be more suitable.

 

[TheSlasher]

There's nothing wrong with wanting to impress women, but you need to do it in a way that's attractive to her. If you've got a kickass personality and a great sense of humour, that's what you use to impress her.

Actually, "impress" is a lousy word to use. "Attract" would be more suitable.

Actually -- and I don't even know what you'll think of this -- but I don't even want to want to attract women.

 

[asa_don]

trying to be flashy will only attract a cetain type of woman, cars, clothes phones only can do so much, being a secure confident man with the success you have is what will obtain women.

Actually -- and I don't even know what you'll think of this -- but I don't even want to want to attract women.

so you dont want women then

Yeah but the problem with the success we have is that it could end, be forgotten, or even belittled. It looks to me that it's no different than taking your confidence from your success with women. I mean life is a journey, a life of working, rather than a life of acquiring.

you have to learn not to let that bother you, not everything lasts forever, if you have good investments and are finacially set you wont have to worry, you can live off of your previous success

 

[TheSlasher]

trying to be flashy will only attract a cetain type of woman, cars, clothes phones only can do so much, being a secure confident man with the success you have is what will obtain women.

so you dont want women then

Yeah but the problem with the success we have is that it could end, be forgotten, or even belittled. It looks to me that it's no different than taking your confidence from your success with women. I mean life is a journey, a life of working, rather than a life of acquiring.