"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How do you get in the relationship it self?.

C00lAF

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Hey all,i know its against the rules,but where i come from if you dont get in a "relationship" with the plate you dont get to do all the good stuff,long story short,you have to tell her that she is the one and you are lucky to have her and her eyes shoot rainbows and all that..you get the point.now according to dj rules,you dont say the L bomb to a plate to keep her wondering,but here they have to belive that you love them or nothing happens.how can i bull**** them?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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EyeBRollin

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The relationship is her idea. Usually when she asks "are you seeing anyone else?" or "what is this?" is your que to have that talk. Let her bring it up.

Why do you want to be in a relationship anyway? Your job is to have fun and have sex with as many women as possible. She worries about locking you down.
 

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I have never ever told a plate that we are into a reationship. They just assume it on their own .
Goddameit..this happens to me often...blame it on the experince
The relationship is her idea. Usually when she asks "are you seeing anyone else?" or "what is this?" is your que to have that talk. Let her bring it up.

Why do you want to be in a relationship anyway? Your job is to have fun and have sex with as many women as possible. She worries about locking you down.
Yes,relationship is my way to sex and fun,and with as many as i could as long as they dont know each other,and exceclusivity to the back burner as well
 

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Where you "come from" or where you ARE?

No man should ever be concerned about "how to get into a relationship". Such a question is on the same level as asking other men "What is the best brand of lipstick?"

This is 2016. Unless you live in India or some other hyper-religious country.. you don't have to tell a woman you "love her" to get laid. If you believe that, then you've been manipulated without even realizing it lol.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Where you "come from" or where you ARE?

No man should ever be concerned about "how to get into a relationship". Such a question is on the same level as asking other men "What is the best brand of lipstick?"

This is 2016. Unless you live in India or some other hyper-religious country.. you don't have to tell a woman you "love her" to get laid. If you believe that, then you've been manipulated without even realizing it lol.
I live in the middle east honey :) nuff said i guess lol. Well you have to do it if you dont want to bang a hooker here,its tough here man
 

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You don't.
 
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